Mommy: My daughter
June 27th, 2008I live in a cul-de-sac. This is a nice place to live, the neighbors are great. It is with my nine year old daughter that I sometimes have a hard time. She does not quite understand (no she never understands)the concept that we can not do everything the neighbors are doing. Last year when Hannah Montana came to town, thankfully we were out of town. Our Cul-de-sac neighbors could afford to buy the tickets. Generally, I don’t think I have the dollars to spend on this type of fleeting entertainment. So I avoid it. I don’t tell my daughter that our friends are going to be at the concert, because then I will have to deal with her relentless questioning of why I did not buy the tickets. She would be happy to eat PB and J, to afford the tickets. So saying that we need food more than and hour and a half of entertainment. Anyway, my idea of not saying anything about our friends going backfired when one of my cul-de-sac moms called us from the concert. She was nice to tell us that it was being filmed for “The Hannah Montana Movie” a movie. I personally don’t understand why my daughter loves Hannah Montana. But when we visit her friends out of state she is lucky to receive their “left over” teen bop magazine pictures that she will try to post to her walls in her new basement bedroom. We will be coming home to Utah on Sunday from our sensible vacation of visiting our family. I was again hoping to be out of town when Mylie is there. But with the economy on the downside, the dollars won’t let us stay away that long. My daughter is toting home a broken Hannah Montana alarm clock that she rescued from her friend Sarah’s trash bag in California before we left for home. I don’t think I will ever understand my daughters love for this double lifed little musician. I have a little inclination that she wishes for a double life. I wish I would have bought tickets, so that my little girl could not think that her mother is like everyone elses mother, and not overly sensible, frugle and wants hewr to be miserable. I know that we would enjoy the fireworks, and she will enjoy the music. And maybe this time my daughter can be the one calling her cul-de-sac friends. Letting them know that she won an amazing moment, that her mother would never spend sensible money on to enjoy. Don’t get me wrong this is not a sob story for me, this is my reality. I love my daughter but sometimes I let sensibility override what could be a wonderful memory.